In this age of excess and  self indulgence the new idea of a “babymoon” has arrived.  A Babymoon is basically a trip away to reconnect, relax, reflect and plan before the arrival of the new baby.  Similar to the “honeymoon” where a couple takes time to enjoy each other and their new commitment to marriage.

Well, give us an excuse to travel and we will jump on the chance!

To The Pool, Four Seasons Style

Justin and I went on our first babymoon before Stella was born to the beautiful Tofino on Vancouver Island.  It was a fantastic getaway and a great time for us to just concentrate on each other and spend a little quality time together before Stella arrived.  Our last trip together alone for what will likely be a very long time.

Daddy and Stella heading to the Pool

So in keeping with tradition we took another babymoon with Stella a couple of weekends ago.  We just went up to Whistler and spent a few nights relaxing and enjoying each other’s company.  Stella loved the pool and we let her watch “Finding Nemo” which was the highlight of the weekend.

In preparation for the arrival of a new baby it’s always important to not only prepare for the baby in all areas:  physically and mentally as I mentioned in my previous posts; and making sure you have all the things you may need for when baby arrives (let’s face it folks, all you REALLY need is a car seat and some diapers and maybe a blanket or two…but I know, we all buy and collect an entire room full of things we think we need).  But I do feel that having a little down time to just think about ourselves and those close to us is a really big part of preparing before the baby comes.

Whistler Dinner

A well rested and connected husband and wife will make for wonderful mommy and daddy.  And we hope that this second babymoon with Stella gave her some of her last “only child” time that will give her the confidence and security to be a very loving and caring big sister (we know she will).

I am 37 weeks today.  I’ve had a bit of a spurt of energy over the past few days and the baby seems to have quieted down a bit.  All signs that we both are preparing for his or her arrival.